Encourage One Another

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Encourage One Another

1 Thessalonians 5:12-15, "Now we ask you, brothers, to respect those who work hard among you, who are over you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers, warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else.”

A few weeks ago we began to look at how the body of Christ is made up of different parts all with different functions working together in unity to accomplish Gods work. We read 1 Corinthians 12:14 which says, “Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many.” We talked about how we are all like pieces of a puzzle that interlock with each other to form this beautiful picture of God’s love. 

In 1 Thessalonians 5, we see that Paul was committed to conflict resolution. Here are three key points I see in these verses.

1. Practice patience. When we spend time teaching and encouraging someone to grow in their faith, or trying to help someone with their problems - one of the first things we realize is that people don’t change as fast as we want them to. Nevertheless, we’re to practice patience with “everyone.”

2. We should Refuse to retaliate. Paul is reiterating the teaching of Jesus about non-retaliation. No matter what is done to us, the follower of Jesus has no excuse to get revenge. There are people in this church who are going to hurt you, and some probably already have. But what do you do when that happens? Matthew 18:15 says, go and meet with that person and seek reconciliation. 

Whatever we do, do not retaliate.

3. We need to Cultivate Kindness. We’re to practice patience and refuse to retaliate, but we’re to do more than just not seek revenge, verse 15 says, “But always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else.”

The word “always” is emphatic. Our tendency is to look for loopholes, or a justification for why we shouldn’t be kind to someone. Romans 14:19, “Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” We’re to cultivate kindness with each other and we’re to be kind to people outside the church. 

If the church is going to function in the way God has designed it, we all need to understand that our piece of the puzzle is most effective when it is interlocked with others in harmony.

Carry Each Others Burdens

copyright 2010Patrick Dirden

Carry Each Others Burdens. Galatians 6:1-5

I haven’t watched much of the TV show American Idol, but I’ve seen enough to know that one of the judges, Simon, enjoys tearing people down. He’s not afraid to speak his mind, and he does so in a very direct way.

Now, while most of us will never have to face a harsh and relentless critic like Simon, many of us have experienced the guilt and brokenness that comes from sin or we’re struggling to bear the burdens that come from life itself. Unfortunately, the church is sometimes the last place where we can find friends who will help carry our burdens. Instead of hearing words of comfort and encouragement from fellow Christians, those who are closest to us sometimes say things that hurt us the most.

God gives us four relationship responsibilities in Galatians 6:1-5.

1. Restore the broken. Look at verse 1, “Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted”.

In other words, restoration is an integral and necessary part of the healing process. If someone has experienced dislocation, or brokenness, or has been torn apart by sin, they need someone who will come alongside in order to lift them up. God Himself is in the restoration business as we read in Ezekiel 34:16: “I will search for the lost and bring back the strays. I will bind up the injured and strengthen the weak.”

2. Relieve the Burdened.  The idea behind this task is that we all have burdens and God does not want us to carry them alone. Look at verse 2, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” When we help the hurting, we are fulfilling the law of Christ, which is summed up in John 13:34, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

3. Remove our pride. The Scripture is so perceptive and direct when it comes to human nature. God knows that you and I will not restore the broken or relieve the burdened if we’re too full of ourselves. Verses 3-4 challenge us to remove our pride, “If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to anybody else…” When you see your brother or sister suffering, don’t be too arrogant to get involved.

It’s so easy for us to look down our noses and say things like:

“They deserve it.”

“They’re so weak.”

“He just can’t handle the pressure.”

“I saw it coming.”

“Maybe they’ll listen to me next time.”

“I don’t want to get involved.”

“I’m just glad it’s them and not me.”

“I know I would never do something like that.”

4: Respect Your Boundaries. Verse 5, “For each one should carry his own load.” We should help each other with the big burdens of life, but there are personal responsibilities that each person must bear for himself. The New Living Translation captures what it means to respect boundaries in verse 5, “For we are each responsible for our own conduct.” There are times when you have to pull back until the other person begins to take responsibility for what is theirs alone.